Melorian

Melorian is one of my many internet usernames, in the real world I tend to go by the name Louise, but I have some other names as well depending on who I'm talking to I am from a small village in England, (East Anglia) and am chronically unemployed.

I am 22 years old and have identified as asexual for eight years now. I used to think I was heteroromantic or biromantic, but very recently I discovered that I thought I was those only becuase I really wanted to be romantic. But wanting to be something is not enough to make you that something. For example, I also really want to be a vampire lol. So a couple of days before I discovered this forum on a link in AVEN I had accepted that I was aromantic. And I am finally happy with that.

Oh yes I am also on AVEN, with the same username. I don't really say much there, but I've been a member since 2006 (I think) and AVEN really helped me through some difficult times and helped me to understand myself. I think it is a great idea to have an aromantic forum though, becuase aromantism is very different from more romantic forms of asexuality and I do admit that sometimes on AVEN I feel a little left out becuase of all the posts on romance.

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